Could a Tongue Tie Be Affecting Your Singing? My Journey and What You Need to Know

Could a Tongue Tie Be Affecting Your Singing? My Journey and What You Need to Know

Introduction

I’m Gemma Milburn, a UK-based vocal coach working online with singers worldwide. For most of my life, I assumed my struggles with singing were down to a lack of talent or not trying hard enough. But on 1 July 2023, at the age of 38, I discovered I had a tongue tie.

That moment explained years of vocal challenges: throat discomfort, fatigue, hoarseness, difficulty with riffs and runs, uncontrollable breathiness, performance anxiety — and the sense that singing was harder for me than it should be.

Since then, I’ve completed myofunctional therapy and, in April 2024, a tongue-tie release surgery. This journey has transformed my own singing and the way I help singers facing similar challenges.

Why Tongue Tie Matters for Singers

Tongue tie (ankyloglossia) occurs when the tongue is tethered too tightly, restricting its range of motion. It’s more common than many people think, with some experts estimating around 1 in 4 people are affected. While some say it only impacts articulation, in reality it can influence nearly every part of vocal function:

  • Breathing patterns

  • Jaw and body alignment

  • Resonance and tone quality

  • Register transitions and vocal stamina

In short: if the tongue can’t move freely, the rest of the vocal system compensates.

5 Ways Tongue Tie Can Affect Singers

This list often resonates strongly with singers who’ve felt like their technique “should” work, but never quite comes together.

My Personal Journey

The discovery


After 13 years of coaching, my own coach noticed something unusual about my tongue. A specialist then confirmed I had a grade 4 (compensating to grade 3) tongue tie — pretty severe, but less visually obvious than the stereotypical “anterior” tie.

Note: You may hear “anterior” or “posterior” used to describe tongue ties. Labels aside, any restrictive tie can be problematic for singers if it limits function.

Therapy first


Because my tongue had never moved freely, it wasn’t strong or coordinated enough to be released safely. I began myofunctional therapy — targeted exercises for the tongue, lips, and jaw. Think of it as physio for your mouth and face.

Surgery
On 26 April 2024, I had my tongue tie released in Ghent, Belgium, by dentist Charlotte Van Bell. She also released an upper lip tie and a buccal tie.

Gemma Milburn vocal coach on the day of tongue tie release surgery in Belgium, documenting her journey as a singer with tongue tie.

The day of my tongue tie release in Ghent, Belgium - April 2024

Immediate changes

  • My tongue finally rested on the roof of my mouth.

  • My lips sealed and my bite felt more comfortable.

  • Chronic neck and jaw tension eased almost instantly.

  • I felt calm in a way I rarely had before.

  • My upper register was immediately easier to access.

Longer-term changes

  • Easier access to high notes and a more natural vibrato.

  • Better breath control (supported by my Buteyko training).

  • Less fatigue and greater flexibility.

  • A warmer, more adaptable tone.

  • More resilience at band rehearsals.

  • Improved concentration and sleep.

Gemma Milburn vocal coach demonstrating myofunctional therapy exercise for tongue tie recovery in singers.

One of the daily Myo exercises I practised before and after release.

Lessons I Now Share With Singers

Since my diagnosis, I’ve begun exploring tongue mobility in sessions and have identified several singers with suspected ties, referring them for specialist assessment when appropriate.

This has reinforced something vital: sometimes singing isn’t about trying harder. It’s about recognising when your body is working against you. Many singers say, “It’s all in my head.” Not always. Sometimes our bodies are simply different from the norm — and function needs support.

My Recommendations for Singers

  • Don’t rely on a diagnosis from a standard practitioner. Many general dentists miss posterior/restrictive ties. Seek a specialist myofunctional therapist or airway-focused dentist.

  • Commit to therapy. Myofunctional therapy before and after any release retrains strength, coordination and neural patterns.

  • Know that change is possible. If you’ve lived with vocal fatigue, range limitations or persistent tension, it doesn’t have to stay that way.

  • No pressure. If you are tongue-tied, don’t panic- treatment is a personal choice. Seek help only if you want to.

    I worked with Emily at Breathe First Speech and Myo (Manchester), whose thorough assessment helped me understand how tongue restriction was affecting my singing, posture, sleep, eating and swallowing.


Gemma Milburn vocal coach with myofunctional therapist Emily from Breathe First Speech and Myo in Manchester, supporting singers with tongue tie.

With my myofunctional therapist, Emily at Breathe First Speech and Myo in Manchester. Her assessment and support were key to my recovery and singing progress.

FAQs About Tongue Tie and Singing

Can tongue tie affect my singing voice?
Yes. It can influence breath coordination, resonance, stamina and flexibility — not just articulation.

Do I need surgery if I’m tongue-tied?
Not always. Many singers benefit from myofunctional therapy alone. Surgery may be recommended for more severe restrictions. The choice is always yours.

Is myofunctional therapy necessary?
If you’re pursuing a release, yes — therapy is crucial before and after to build strength and retrain patterns.

How do I know if I’m tongue-tied?
See a specialist myofunctional therapist (e.g., Breathe First Speech and Myo) or an airway-focused dentist for a proper assessment. Signs can include difficulty lifting the tongue when the mouth is open, mouth breathing and chronic vocal fatigue.

Final Thoughts & Next Steps

Discovering my tongue tie and going through treatment has been one of the most transformative experiences of my singing career. It showed me that when singers struggle, the cause isn’t always technique or mindset- sometimes it’s structural.

If you’re curious whether tongue tie could be part of your story, I’d love to explore it with you. I can’t diagnose, but I have first-hand experience of how tongue restriction can affect the voice - and how to support change whether you choose to have a release or not.
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I got invited to speak on the "Your Voice Unlocked' podcast about tongue ties and singing.

I got invited to speak on the "Your Voice Unlocked' podcast about tongue ties and singing.